Travelling with teenagers may not seem like much of a holiday if your kids are going through a difficult phase, but you can help ensure the holiday is enjoyable for everyone involved if you take the time to consider everyone's needs. Taking teenagers somewhere they aren't going to enjoy will only lead to problems, and could spoil the trip for other travellers.
Teenagers may desire independence, but the truth is that most of them will jump at the chance to go on holiday, especially if it's being paid for by their parents. You just have to make sure the type of holiday you choose is one that will truly be of interest to them at this point in their lives, and avoid being selfish. Conversely, you also need to remember that your own happiness is important, and that you shouldn't simply cave in to your kids.
The best way to plan a holiday that everyone will enjoy is to involve all travellers at every stage of the process. Asking teenagers for their opinions and taking them on board will help them see that their opinions and feelings are valued, but you also need to stand your ground on issues such as price, destination and activities, if you feel they would not be suitable for other members of the family.
The good news is that many travel destinations have many sides to them, so even if teenagers are drawn to the nightclubs of Ibiza or outdoor activities in South East Asia, there are likely to be beaches, areas of natural beauty and even historical sites nearby, helping to ensure that everyone gets something out of the break.
Of course, the best holiday activities are those you can enjoy together, so you shouldn't be more divisive than you need to. This may require you to step outside of your comfort zone and get involved in activities you would otherwise avoid, such as sports, but you may find you have a great time white water rafting or learning the basics of rock climbing. If your teenage children aren't travelling with friends in tow, they are also less likely to act embarrassed by your presence, and could be glad for the company.
You need to bear in mind the night as well as the day when it comes to family holidays for teenagers though, as not everyone will be happy retiring to their hotel room once the sun goes down. Staying at a holiday resort with activities designed especially for teenagers can help keep them entertained, without you having to worry about their safety.
Bob Taggart writes for a digital marketing agency. This article has been commissioned by a client of said agency. This article is not designed to promote, but should be considered professional content.
May 12, 2011
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